“No” Does Not Require an Explanation
We’ve become so inundated with request to do this, that, and the other that we feel we have to justify our no’s. “No, I can’t do it because…,” “I would but…,” “I can’t do it this week however…” The truth is a simple no is sufficient! No, I am not able to serve on your board. No, this week doesn’t work for me. No, I can’t be your campaign manager.
Saying no is especially hard for women who are juggling many work, home, and church responsibilities and are natural caretakers. The downfall of not saying no is that we end up stressed out, overwhelmed, and of no benefit to anyone, including our self and our families.
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